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Sick Systems: How to Keep Someone With You Forever
On Whittling Yourself Away
Qualities That Keep You in a Sick System
How to Be a Perfect Manager
Narcissism
Narcissists Online
What to Remember When Dealing With a Narcissist
Down the Rabbit Hole:
The world of estranged parents' forums
The Abuser's Side of the Story
Stories from Estranged Parents
Why Study Estranged Parents' Forums?
How Do You Tell Which Parents Are Abusive?
Not All Estranged Parents Are Abusive
The Missing Missing Reasons
When the Missing Reasons Aren't Missing
Dysfunctional Beliefs
Estranged Parents and Boundaries
Case Study:
"The actual reason for the conflict is commonly ill-defined"
Forum Culture: Why Are the Forum Members Different?
Themes of Estranged Parents' Forums
Introduction
Themes:
"Our children want to hurt us"
Themes:
"I just want to beat his ass"
Themes:
"We're not perfect, and neither are they"
Themes:
"I'm contacting my estranged child for me, not her"
Themes:
"Unwanted contact isn't stalking"
Themes:
"Abuse is rare"
Themes:
"Truly abusive parents don't care"
Themes:
"They want us to chase them"
Themes:
"Our children don't really believe they were abused"
Themes:
"They're laughing at us"
Why Do Adult Children Estrange?: The Parents' Take
Why Do Adult Children Estrange?: The Children's Explanations
Notes
All-or-Nothing Relationships
Contradictory Beliefs, Double Standards
The Absence of Categories
Resources for Children of Abusers
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Women's Names in Edo-Era Japan: The Early Edo Period (1600 to 1700)
Japanese Name Resources
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Names from Prester John's Kingdom
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Women's Names in Edo-Era Japan: The Early Edo Period (1600 to 1700)
Japanese Name Resources
Japanese Courtesans: Oiran and Tayū
Japanese Courtesans' Names
About Japanese Courtesans' Names
Lower-Ranking Prostitutes' Names
How Old Were They?
A Snapshot of a Small Pleasure Quarter in 1860
But Were They Working Prostitutes?
Kamuro
Bantō-Shinzō
Oiran and Tayū Resources
Researching in Japanese
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Reading Saiken
Japanese Blood Types and Personality
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Miso Soup for the Otaku Soul
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Zozenawayone: Speaking Japanese
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If I Ever Become an Anime Character...
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The Twinkie Sandwich Challenge
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A Brief Rant Concerning Yaoi Warnings
Hyper Is the New Feminine
Secrets of the Old Masters
"...And Her Hair Turned White!"
Because Vikings Just Luuurved to Travel
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